Stress Relief for Moms: Online Tips and Local Services in the Bay Area

As a busy mom, you may be all too familiar with the signs of stress from your daily life. Stress can occur over a spectrum of your day to day responsibilities, such as disciplining your children, or juggling tasks at work, managing your finances, or when coping with a challenging relationship. Stress is everywhere. And while a little stress is actually beneficial, too much stress can wear you down and make you sick, both mentally and physically. To help prevent the ill affects of chronic stress, try these age old stress stoppers offered from ivillage.com Each are quick, easy ways to de-stress, recalibrate and revitalize mind, body and spirit.

Breathe

To relieve stress and calm yourself, practice diaphragmatic breathing. Full, deep breathing is a good way to reduce tension, feel relaxed, and reduce stress. Here’s how: Inhale deeply through your nose, allowing your abdomen and your chest to rise to a count of four, then exhale slowly through your nose to a count of four; repeat this exercise four times. Do this several times throughout the day, every day, to feel less stressed.

Drink Tea

According to WebMD, Studies have found that some teas may help with cancer, heart disease, and diabetes; encourage weight loss; lower cholesterol; and bring about mental alertness.Research at the University College London also found that drinking black tea on a daily basis can actually help you recover more quickly from the stresses of daily life by lowering levels of stress hormones and inducing greater feelings of relaxation. So, sit back, enjoy a time-out, and sip some soothing brew.

Journal

A recent study at the University at Albany, State University of New York, found that writing about stressful events in your life for just 20 minutes dramatically lowers your perception of your own personal stress. Whether it’s because this gets your worries out of your head, or because it simply stops you from mulling over your problems, the result is the same: less stress, less depression and a better mood.

Progressive Muscle Relaxation

This process involves tensing and relaxing each muscle group. Progressive muscle relaxation can reduce anxiety and muscle tension and if you have trouble falling asleep, this method may also help with insomnia. To do progressive muscle relaxation, start by scrunching up the muscles in your face, hold 2 or 3 seconds, then slowly relax them to a count of 20 (it takes at least 20 seconds for your muscles to relax completely). Then, while letting the rest of your body relax, shrug your shoulders up, hold and feel the tension in your shoulders, then let them go limp for a slow count of 20. Continue working down your body, tightening and releasing the muscles in your arms (pressing each arm against your body, holding and releasing for 20 seconds), your hands (making tight fists and releasing them for 20 seconds), your back, legs and feet.

Guided Imagery

Guided imagery has many uses. You can use it to promote relaxation, which can lower blood pressure and reduce other problems related to stress. Sitting in a comfortable position, close your eyes and think about the most peaceful place you have ever been, or image a place you would like to be (the beach; in front of a warm fire). Imagine two or more things you would see, hear, smell and feel in this place. Breathe slowly as you use all of your senses to experience the image fully.

Choose one or more of these soothing de-stressors to incorporate in your day. If you need support reach out to friends and family and let them know how they can help you find balance. Read more about these helpful tips for moms from ivillage

Live in the Bay area and want more options for self care?

Treat yourself to a massage, yoga class, nutritional counseling, energy therapy and much more at Bloom Retreat Inc. in Walnut Creek, a special wellness center just for mom’s. No babysitter? Bring your little ones along! Bloom offers childcare so both you and your children have a special day. Bloom offers on site childcare based on the arts, movement, and social/emotional development for children crawling to six years old. Childcare is available Monday through Friday from 9:30-1:30 and can be purchased by the half hour. Reservations are recommended.

What’s New: I’ll be offering multiple ways to relieve stress and anxiety, alleviate pain and eliminate limiting beliefs to living your best at Bloom on Saturdays!

Contact me at goldenlor@gmail.com for more information on how to get 50% off your first session. Learn more about my services at Bloom

Or attend an Open House Wednesday, October 3rd from 6-9pm to meet me and all the Bloom practitioners!

Yours in Health,

Lori

www.GoldenTransformation.com

Reduce Stress and Anxiety with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)

Stress and anxiety can often interfere with making big or even small changes in our lives. It may impact our ability to improve our health, start a new career, move deeper in our relationships or successfully achieve our dreams. Do you ever wish you had a way to reduce your ongoing stress or anxiety so you can move forward in life? I recently learned a powerful self-care approach called Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) which helps reduce the emotional intensity of stressful and even traumatic experiences. EFT works with the emotional and energetic ties which may be limiting our ability to change, heal, grow and move forward to more positive health behavior changes.

EFT is a technique based on the concept of energy psychology. It was developed by Gary Craig out of the original work of Dr. Roger Callahan. The aim of EFT is to desensitize emotional issues through tapping a sequence of acupressure points on the body while thinking about a specific problem, or negative thought, worry, etc. EFT can have fast acting results for emotional improvement. The technique has been shown to improve issues such as grief, anger, phobias, PTSD, addictive cravings, pain, and much more. The empowering results from EFT for both mind and body is what makes this holistic approach an exceptional self-care tool. When we can reduce the influence of negative emotions and decrease our stress response then we may become emotionally available to pursue a better quality of life.

EFT has been researched in more than 7 countries with results published in more than 15 different peer-reviewed journals. For more information on EFT research and evidence based studies, visit the EFT Research page:

http://www.eftuniverse.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=18

To learn the technique, first watch a video to get started and then attend a class or session by a qualified EFT instructor/practitioner for more in depth skill building. You can watch free videos online and learn more about EFT by visiting Gary Craig’s website: www.eftuniverse.com

Learn Locally! SF/East Bay Area EFT Classes:

HCH Institute

3702 Mount Diablo Boulevard
Lafayette, CA 94549-3612
(925) 283-3941

http://www.hypnotherapytraining.com/

Here’s to your emotional freedom!

Lori

www.GoldenTransformation.com

Can't Sleep? Improve Your Sleep Naturally with Yoga and Guided Imagery

Do you lie awake at night unable to sleep? Getting restful sleep is a growing challenge for many of us who toss and turn nightly, unable to fall asleep. Others may perhaps fall asleep, but then wake up and cannot return to sleep. When insomnia is a result of stress, such as looming deadlines, financial hardship or a life change, there are a few natural options you can try to decrease the flow of stress hormones and increase a state of relaxation for better sleep.

Yoga

Practicing yoga may aid with sleep problems by decreasing muscle tension, as well as lowering mental and emotional stress, while encouraging the body to deeply relax. The practice of yoga uses breathing techniques and stretching exercises designed to slow down a busy mind and focus your awareness on the present moment. The result of this mindful practice is a decrease in the amount of stress hormones that your body produces when you are under stress. An added benefit to this type of de-stressing is an increase in immunity, and strengthening the body’s resiliency to dis-ease. When your body, mind, and spirit are relaxed, you will also sleep better!

Try this yoga pose before bedtime to calm the nervous system and aid insomnia:

Legs Up the Wall Pose (Viparita Karani)

Caution: Avoid if you have serious eye problems, such as glaucoma. With serious neck or back problems only perform this pose with the supervision of an experienced teacher. If your feet begin to tingle during this pose, bend your knees, touch the soles of your feet together, and slide the outer edges of your feet down the wall, bringing your heels close to your pelvis.

• Begin pose by using a wall for support where you can lie down and have your buttocks close to the wall.
• Extend your legs up the wall as you lie back, perpendicular to the wall. Flex your toes toward you so the soles of your feet face the ceiling. You should feel a stretch in the back of the legs.
• Stay in this position 5 -10 minutes (if comfortable); close your eyes and breathe deeply.
• To come out of the pose, bend your knees and slide your feet down the wall then roll to one side and lie on your side for 30 seconds to a minute before coming up to a seated position.

Guided Imagery

Guided imagery is a technique of directed thoughts and suggestions that guide your imagination toward a relaxed, focused state. The practice of guided imagery uses the mind-body connection and is based on the concept that your body responds to what you are imagining.

If you have trouble sleeping, guided imagery may help you achieve a relaxed state when you imagine all the details of a safe, comfortable place, such as a beach or a soothing environment. One of the many benefits to guided imagery is stress reduction and deep relaxation, which encourages better sleep.

Try guided imagery tonight! Download a free podcast I developed for Hill Physicians called, A Better Night’s Sleep at: www.HillPhysicians.com/Sleep All you need to do is to get comfortable and listen while in bed, before you are ready to go to sleep, and continue each night until you can fall asleep without the use of the guided imagery.

Have other natural sleep tips? Let us know what works best for you!

Sweet Dreams!

Lori

Practicing Yoga at Any Size

Has your weight or body image ever stopped you from trying yoga? The thought of a yoga class often brings about images of slender bodies bending with ease and with great flexibility into pretzel-like positions leaving some people thinking…I can’t do that! What many people don’t know is that yoga can be beneficial for people of any size and level of flexibility. In fact, there are classes, DVD’s and instructors that focus specifically on the practice of yoga to enhance physical health and emotional well-being for those who are full figured or less flexible and who would like to try yoga, but may be intimidated by the routine yoga class.

Yoga has many well-known physical benefits such as increasing strength, flexibility, range of motion of joints and decreasing stress and tension in the body. But what some might not know is that yoga also offers an opportunity for deep connection and acceptance of one’s body, through self-awareness and the practice of letting go of self-judgment and harsh inner criticisms. When provided with a safe environment, one can explore the body through yoga postures, the breath and mindfulness, which can lead to a transformative experience for anyone of any size and level. By reconnecting with the body in this authentic way, yoga may offer a new relationship with ourselves that can lead to a path of self-empowerment and a sense of control over our health and our choices for better well-being.

Whether your goal is greater flexibility, weight loss, or to simply engage in a mind-body-spiritual practice for self-care, yoga offers many styles and modifications depending on your level of readiness, physical ability and wellness goals. If you are struggling with your weight or body image and would like to try yoga, read on and explore the following resources to learn how yoga may help you form a healthier self-image and get you back into a more active lifestyle:

Articles:

From About.com: Will Doing Yoga Help Me Lose Weight?

http://yoga.about.com/od/yogafa1/f/loseweight.htm

From USAToday.com: Overweight Embrace Yoga to Lose Weight, Stay in Shape

http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2005-05-24-plus-size-yoga_x.htm

Local Bay Area Resource:

Sally Pugh, owner of Grateful Spirit Yoga, offers yoga services in the San Francisco bay area designed especially for large women. Go to http://www.gratefulspirityoga.net/ to learn more about Sally’s professional experience as a yoga instructor, her yoga classes and retreats.

Sally also offers a DVD, Expanding into Fullness, for home yoga practice. The DVD is geared for large women, but is appropriate for all levels of fitness and yoga experience and offers practices to strengthen your body, your mind, and to open your heart. You can preview and order this DVD here: http://www.gratefulspirityoga.net/store.html

Mind-Body-Salsa

Dancing has always been an integral part of my life. In fact, I can’t imagine my life without some form of dance or movement to help keep me balanced. Dancing has the ability to transform my mood, alter my consciousness, and improve how I feel physically while also giving me an outlet for stress reduction and self-expression. Western medical research also shows there are incredible health benefits to one of my favorite dance styles, salsa dancing!

According to studies by the Mayo Clinic, salsa dancing has been found to increase energy, strength, muscle tone and coordination while decreasing stress. Additionally, salsa dancing may help with weight loss, cardiovascular health and concentration.

As a social dance, salsa also allows for a sense of community, and may decrease feelings of loneliness and depression. The New England Journal of Medicine touts dancing in general for its benefits in stimulating the brain and having a positive effect on memory and decreasing the risk for some aging health concerns like dementia.

Dance has been used in many societies, over centuries, to express personal stories, cultural legacies and to celebrate life. Knowing the remarkable health benefits in addition to enjoying the rhythm of music and dance, it makes it an easy choice to select dancing as a tool for every day stress reduction. To choose a style that’s right for you, try taking a local community class at your city’s Adult Recreation Center. Bring a friend who enjoys a similar style to your own and find a community of other people to meet. Above all, let loose, have fun and know you’re getting the top health benefits from dancing the night away!

In Health and Salsa,

Lori

For more information on the health benefits of dancing read on:

Article from WebMD on dancing your way to better health:

http://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/features/dancing-your-way-to-better-health

Article on health benefits of dancing according to specific dance styles:

http://www.sixwise.com/newsletters/05/11/02/the-health-benefits-of-dancing----including-specific-benefits-of-different-dances.htm

Salsa Dance Classes Locally:

Bay Area Salsa! If you are in the Bay Area, try my favorite Salsa dance instructor, Tomaj Trenda, and his classes for beginning or intermediate students. He is also hosting a night of Salsa dancing, including lessons and a live Salsa band. Come enjoy a friendly community of dancers: Saturday, June 11th in the East Bay starting at 8pm at the Orinda Masonic Hall. $15 discount tickets available online now.

Visit www.salsawithtomaj.com for more information on ongoing classes and this special event.

Workplace Yoga

Many employers, of all sizes and industries, are taking a proactive approach to employee wellness by encouraging yoga in the workplace. Yoga has been known to reduce the number of sick days in the workplace, lower health care costs, and improve the overall health of people who practice this ancient healing art. Studies have shown that yoga can increase both mental and physical strength, improve focus and elevate mood. Employees who take regular breaks to do yoga stretches or postures often return to work refreshed and revived, more focused and poised to make better decisions. The deep breathing and relaxation employees experience in yoga can also help them manage and reduce stress and cope with challenges more effectively.

Need more convincing? Here are other key benefits for incorporating yoga during your workday. Yoga can:

*Allow the body to recover from repetitive tasks and increase flexibility

*Calm the mind and improve concentration and clear thinking

*Decrease stress during the workday and improve mood

*Improve productivity and decrease sick time/absences

*Reduce tension in the head, neck shoulders, forearms and wrists

More and more employers are now offering perks such as yoga and meditation sessions at the workplace for employee wellness and stress relief. But even if you don’t have a yoga class at your workplace, there are a variety of stretches you can do at your work station to reduce tension, decrease repetitive stress injury and improve your mood and energy level.

Hill Physicians has a great slideshow and podcast for simple stretches and exercises you can do at work, right in your chair. This is a great way to take mini-breaks throughout the day, which can prevent injuries from repetitive motion and relieve workday stress.

Visit: www.HillPhysicians.com/Podcasts to download the podcast and chair yoga slideshow for free or check out their entire Workplace Stress podcast series:

Managing Workplace Stress

Creating Calm in the Work Zone

Chair Yoga for the Workplace

For Workplace Yoga classes near you, inquire with a certified yoga instructor in your area. Find a registered yoga instructor through the National Yoga Alliance: http://yogaalliance.org/

My favorite local instructor for work place yoga is Diane Valentine at the Yoga and Movement Center in Walnut Creek. She was voted Best Yoga Teacher in 2010 in the Bay area’s Diablo Magazine.

You can read more about Diane from the Diablo Magazine article http://www.diablomag.com/health/Best-of-the-East-Bay-Health-Fitness/#yogateacher or visit http://www.yoga-movement.com/ to learn more about her Yoga and Movement Center in Walnut Creek, CA.

So get stretching in the office and discover the benefits!

Lori

Healing Touch for Health

There are some things you can't avoid no matter how well you take care of yourself. For me, being in a cubicle work environment sometimes means exposure to germs, viruses and more. After having a flu for more than a week this month, I was experiencing low energy even after all my symptoms had cleared. I was even feeling a little too fragile for a massage treatment (which I normally relish in) so I opted for a gentler approach to assist with my healing, a therapy called Energy Field Massage. I was glad I did! Not only was this therapy extremely gentle, it was the calming, restorative experience I had hoped it would be.

As a massage practitioner and instructor I was curious about this technique, and I'm always looking for new ways to expand my knowledge of therapeutic touch to benefit my clients and students. Since many of the people I see have pain issues, such as arthritis, back pain, migraines or other issues that make it difficult to sometimes receive massage work directly on the body, I signed up for a course to learn more about this particular therapy and how it works.

Energy Field Massage is based on the therapy known as Healing Touch and incorporates "off the body" healing, in the area of the aura. Although some may consider this practice as new age or "out there" in concept, the truth is that the electromagnetic field that surrounds our physical body was scientifically proven and measured many years ago by scientists at Yale University back in the 1930's. This "biofield" consists of ions, free protons and free electrons which act as a vibration, constantly receiving as well as filtering out information from our environment that then has a direct impact on our thoughts, mood, and physical health. The theory behind Healing Touch therapy is that if we can work on balancing the energy field (and energy centers known as Chakras which comprise this field) then we may positively impact our overall health and wellness. Some hospitals even now employ trained Healing Touch practitioners to do energy work on post surgery patients in an effort to reduce pain and stress.

This approach to health and healing is very exciting and I'm happy to share this resource since the benefits of this technique may reduce pain, accelerate healing and provide balance for the whole person: mind, body and spirit.

Using healing touch for yourself as self-care is also possible and includes using the palms of the hands held just above the body. To feel the energy field yourself, begin by rubbing the palms together until you feel warmth and heat between the hands. Next take the hands apart slowly and bring your awareness to the center of the palms. Begin to draw the palms away from each other and then slowly back towards one another, but not touching. See if you can sense energy here between the palms. As you take the hands apart and then towards each other you may start to feel sensations of warmth, tingling or even a stronger feeling of a bubble between the hands, as if you could make the bubble larger as you move the hands away or make it smaller as the hands come closer together.

This initial exercise is a practice in sensing the bioelectrical energy being radiated from the palm Chakras and felt just outside the body. You can use this sensation to then hover one palm over the center of the chest and the other palm above the crown of the head, for instance, to bring a sense of tranquility when you feel stressed.

A certified practitioner would use their palms to feel your energy and then use their hands to help rebalance areas of the field that may feel different in temperature, texture, and density which may indicate pain, energy blocks, or armoring from trauma.

To learn more about Healing Touch for your own self-care or to find a practitioner near you, visit Healing Touch International:

http://www.healingtouchinternational.org/

Yours in healing touch,

Lori

Resources on Energy Healing and Books of interest:

Energy Medicine: Balancing Your Body's Energies for Optimal Health, Joy and Vitality

Donna Eden and David Feinstein, Ph.D (New York, Penguin Group, 2008)

Vibrational Medicine: The #1 Handbook of Subtle-Energy Therapies

Richard Gerber, M.D. (Rochester, Vermont, Bear and Company, 2001)

Hands of Light: A Guide to Healing Through the Human Energy Field

Barbara Ann Brennan (New York, Bantam Books, 1988)

Energy Field Massage in the Bay Area:

Susan Gann, Certified Acupressure Therapist

susancgann@sbcglobal.net